Part Two… Seven Biblical Ways The Christian Wife Sexually Excites Her Husband #4 A Wife’s Eyes As A Source Of Excitement: The godly wife sets aside the modesty and bashful ways of her single days when it comes to her husband. Having guarded her eyes as a single woman, she can now use them freely to beguile and excite her husband. The ability of eyes to affect the emotions of others is well documented in Scripture. In terms of the relationship between men and women, the Bible speaks in a number of places about a woman’s ability to use her eyes to excite a man. The godly wife recognizes this and develops the ability to entice, stimulate and excite her husband in a seductive manner as his enchantress. She does this with full freedom of emotion and knowing that this is a ministry to her husband and pleasing to God. Proverbs 15:30 30 Bright eyes gladden the heart... Song of Solomon 4:1 1 "How beautiful you are, my darling, how beautiful you are! Your eyes are like doves behind your veil… Song of Solomon 4:9 9 "You have made my heart beat faster, my sister, my bride; you have made my heart beat faster with a single glance of your eyes, with a single strand of your necklace. Song of Solomon 6:5 5 "Turn your eyes away from me, for they have confused me…
#5 The Godly Wife And The Excitement Of Perfume: The Word of God recognizes the role of perfumes and oils in bringing about sexual excitement in a man. The godly wife is encouraged to stimulate her husband in this way. The most intimate moments which the godly wife spends with her husband are depicted as those which make the senses drunk with her pleasures. This is something the godly wife thinks about and plans for. It is not a passing application but a careful seductive attack on the senses of her husband as she overpowers his senses with the passion of her erotic love. Proverbs 27:9 9 Oil and perfume make the heart glad… Song of Solomon 1:12 12 "While the king was at his table, My perfume gave forth its fragrance. Song of Solomon 1:13 13 "My beloved is to me a pouch of myrrh which lies all night between my breasts. Song of Solomon 4:5-6 5 "Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle, which feed among the lilies. 6 "Until the cool of the day when the shadows flee away, I will go my way to the mountain of myrrh and to the hill of frankincense. Song of Solomon 4:10 & 11 10 "How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much better is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your oils than all kinds of spices! 11 "Your lips, my bride, drip honey; honey and milk are under your tongue, and the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. Song of Solomon 4:16 16 "Awake, O north wind, and come, wind of the south; make my garden breathe out fragrance, let its spices be wafted abroad. May my beloved come into his garden and eat its choice fruits!" Song of Solomon 5:5 5 "I arose to open to my beloved; and my hands dripped with myrrh, and my fingers with liquid myrrh, On the handles of the bolt. Song of Solomon 7:10-13 10 "I am my beloved's, and his desire is for me. 11 "Come, my beloved, let us go out into the country, let us spend the night in the villages. 12 "Let us rise early and go to the vineyards; let us see whether the vine has budded and its blossoms have opened, and whether the pomegranates have bloomed. There I will give you my love. 13 "The mandrakes have given forth fragrance; and over our doors are all choice fruits, both new and old, which I have saved up for you, my beloved.
#6 The Godly Wife And The Excitement Of Her Lips, Her Mouth: The godly wife recognizes the unique role of her mouth and lips in exciting and satisfying her husband. Some Christian wives overreact to this principle. Rather than making use of it, they reject it as worldly, despite the Word of God’s sanction of the mouth and lips of the godly wife as a source of pleasure and excitement for her husband. The intoxicating nature of her lips, her mouth and her kisses are a source of pride for the godly wife and, in her desire to excite and satisfy her husband, she seeks to accentuate the role her lips and mouth play in bringing her husband pleasure and satisfaction. Song of Solomon 4:3 3 "Your lips are like a scarlet thread, and your mouth is lovely…” Song of Solomon 4:10-11 10 "How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much better is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your oils than all kinds of spices! 11 "Your lips, my bride, drip honey; honey and milk are under your tongue, and the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon.” Song of Solomon 7:8-10 8 "I said, 'I will climb the palm tree, I will take hold of its fruit stalks.' Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, and the fragrance of your breath like apples, 9 And your mouth like the best wine!"" It goes down smoothly for my beloved, flowing gently through the lips of those who fall asleep. 10 "I am my beloved's, and his desire is for me.
Song of Solomon 8:1-3 1 "Oh that you were like a brother to me who nursed at my mother's breasts. If I found you outdoors, I would kiss you; no one would despise me, either. 2 "I would lead you and bring you into the house of my mother, who used to instruct me; I would give you spiced wine to drink from the juice of my pomegranates. 3 "Let his left hand be under my head, and his right hand embrace me."
#7 The Godly Wife And The Excitement Of Her Breasts: The godly wife recognizes that her breasts are a thing of wonder and delight to her husband-- that they are a gift from God to him that God has entrusted to her that she may bless him. She does not allow the secular world’s misuse of this gift to cloud her understanding of her unique position to attract and excite her husband. She truly delights in this blessing, which she alone may bestow on him and which she alone may use to excite him. Proverbs 5:18-19 18 Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 As a loving hind and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times; be exhilarated always with her love. Proverbs 5:20 20 “For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, and embrace the bosom of a foreigner?” Song of Solomon 1:13 13 "My beloved is to me a pouch of myrrh which lies all night between my breasts. Song of Solomon 4:5-6 5 "Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle, which feed among the lilies. 6 "Until the cool of the day when the shadows flee away, I will go my way to the mountain of myrrh and to the hill of frankincense. Song of Solomon 7:1-3 1 "How beautiful are your feet in sandals, O prince's daughter! The curves of your hips are like jewels, the work of the hands of an artist. 2 "Your navel is like a round goblet which never lacks mixed wine; your belly is like a heap of wheat fenced about with lilies. 3 "Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. Song of Solomon 7:6-8 6 "How beautiful and how delightful you are, My love, with all your charms! 7 "Your stature is like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters. 8 "I said, 'I will climb the palm tree, I will take hold of its fruit stalks.' Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine, and the fragrance of your breath like apples, Song of Solomon 8:1-3 1 "Oh that you were like a brother to me who nursed at my mother's breasts. If I found you outdoors, I would kiss you; no one would despise me, either. 2 "I would lead you and bring you into the house of my mother, who used to instruct me; I would give you spiced wine to drink from the juice of my pomegranates. 3 "Let his left hand be under my head, and his right hand embrace me." Song of Solomon 8:10 10 "I was a wall, and my breasts were like towers; then I became in his eyes as one who finds peace.” Isaiah 66:11 11 “That you may nurse and be satisfied with her comforting breasts, that you may suck and be delighted with her bountiful bosom."
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