Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
Although I would confess, if you pinned me down, I was not as good or godly a parent as I should have been, I do feel I might be able to help some in this area. For the next two or three blogs I want to say a few things about parenting hopefully without coming across as a "know-it-all".
Our text verse is one many godly parents turn to for comfort in times of anxiety over future concerns as well as current problems they might be facing with their children. First, I am convinced this verse is more than just a declaration of a godly principle, but is a promise from God. Secondly, I am convinced many godly parents have interpreted this text incorrectly! It does not say instruct a child, but train up a child! There is a big difference between instruction and training, Instruction is only part of the training process. Having previously worked in a manufacturing background for several years I have observed several training departments, and in each of these there was instruction and then oversight to see that the new employee had understood, could do, and could do in a reasonable time what would be expected of them when they were placed on the actual job. With most of the trainees it took time for them to become proficient at the job, but with continued practice they gradually improved and eventually achieved the desired level of performance. I am convinced this is what the Holy Spirit had in mind in our text and, expects out of parents striving to raise godly children. Instruction must be first, but then "hands on" application of these truths under the guidance or oversight of the parents is essential. In other words, your children must practice over and over what you teach them! If it is Bible reading, prayer, singing, witnessing, praising the Lord, whatever it might be, the parent must instruct as well as oversee and evaluate them as they "practice" until this activity becomes part of their life, and of who they are!
Parents be spiritual trainers not just spiritual instructors! Be hands on, and not casual observers!