Lets turn this thing around a bit. how about saying, â€œAs a Christian, I'm doing that as best as I can," I just love pornography. It's not my fault I love it right? Why is it not possible to love porno and at the same time hold on to my faith?" Does that sound ridiculous? Well its basically the same thing with this girl. The reason you cant hold on to your girl and the faith is that your faith says homosexual desire is a perverted sinful desire, just like a "natural desire" for pornography is a sinful desire. Someone disciple this girl in love.