Stand Down Genesis 13:1-18 When Relationships Collide: Thriving in the Midst of Conflict. It's only natural that we seek what is best for us. When conflict enters a relationship, most of us want to preserve the relationship, but we're still going to look after our own interests. After all, "If I don't look after my own interests, who will?" Compromise can often be an option, but sometimes the best option is simply to put aside our own interests and let the other person "win." As a result, we can receive the greater benefit of preserving and even strengthening the relationship. Abram, whose name means "the exalted father," was a native of Chaldea and a descendant of Shem, the son of Noah. Abram was born in Ur about 2160 B.C. When he was 70 years old, he migrated with his father Terah, his nephew Lot, and his wife Sarah to Haran Gen. 11:27-31 in response to God's call. After his father Terah died in Haran, God renewed His call to Abram and he departed for the land of Canaan Gen. 12:1,5. Compelled by a famine, Abram went to Egypt where he tried to deceive Pharaoh about his relation to Sarah. After the plot was discovered, Abram, Lot, and Sarah left Egypt and returned to Canaan.There problems developed between Abram's and Lot's herdsmen.I wonder how many family fights have been caused by the love of money.The heart of every problem is the problem in the heart. Lot's heart was centered on wealth and worldly achievement, while Abraham wanted only to please the Lord.The world's wisdom and the world's wealth seem so satisfying, but they ultimately bring disappointment.Abram was walking in fellowship with God, and his heart was satisfied. |
